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i had a wife.. rolled the dice until my heart was with the sharks.. i put my blood on black.. won it all back.. now i'm married to the game.. a man apart..
I've been single for about 4 years and currently looking (but haven't made time for it).
If my ex-girlfriend didn't move so far away, we still would have been together in the present day. We just knew it wasn't going to work with the distance and all, it was hard, but we decided to break up.
She was rather special and I kinda miss her still...even now.
I can be kind of picky more often than not, but I have found some/several potential people during work but don't have much time to talk to them and get to know them better.
When it comes to getting married and having kids, I envision of hopefully finding that special one and marry her 6 years from now and probably have kids 1 or 2 years into our marriage.
At least that would be the ideal plan, but the future is uncertain...anything can happen =/
I've enjoyed being single so far, but I miss having that special someone beside me.
Im single and happy about it. Ive been for 6 months already and he was my first serious one(dont think that i go to parties and start to seek guys like crazy, i barely go out). For a first expetience was...crappy, because of some reasons that i cant comment here. But the bigger of all was that he was a real freackin jerk and stupid and he rather stay with his friends than wuth me and i discovered that he was using me to "look cool" towards his friends that never dated...something that i learned is that love hurts most of the times...Now i rather stay single.
@Enrico Marini
Are you an only child? I'm curious. Or did you grow up in a situation to where you pretty much were an only child?
I have two brothers, one that was awesome but never around (was living with my Gran, 5 years older, essentially my mum was a single parent working and he got too used to my gran so lived with her) and my younger brother who was essentially gunning for my position, usually the older picks on the younger but I never did so he took up the mantle.
Having money for shinies is always a nice thing. Relationship wise, I can see their advantages and wouldn't be against one but it'd have to be the right one.
I have two brothers, one that was awesome but never around (was living with my Gran, 5 years older, essentially my mum was a single parent working and he got too used to my gran so lived with her) and my younger brother who was essentially gunning for my position, usually the older picks on the younger but I never did so he took up the mantle.
Having money for shinies is always a nice thing. Relationship wise, I can see their advantages and wouldn't be against one but it'd have to be the right one.
Yes, I agree. I think I've never been in a relationship because I really want something in particular, and I know that is what I want. There have only been two girls that I've really wanted to date, but due to various reasons it didn't happen. The first one was actually too far away from me; we met, but yeah, there was that whole distance thing. The second one I met in college and we became good friends. I was placed in the infamous "friend zone," and then she started dating one of my roommates. To this day, I still wish him ill will and wish him dead because not only did he take the dating her thing away, but he sort of warped our friendship. It was never the same after. They broke up, and I still keep in touch with the girl, but yeah, it just isn't quite the same. I think it is more-so me that is the problem there because I see her in a different light now. Whatever, stuff happens, right?
I am open to the prospect of a relationship, but if I can tell right away that it isn't going to work for whatever reason, I don't waste my time. I just don't understand the idea of getting into a relationship to basically say you are in one. I guess my problem is I can't really fathom co-dependence and defining my worth and validation through another human being. To each his own though; everyone is different.
The people that meet my criteria are rare, and I can accept this to myself that I will probably be alone because of it. When the heart and mind know what they want though, why force it to do something else? I really just look for someone that I have fun and can laugh with...You would think that would be easy to find, but not exactly.
Just got dumped last Friday, been in a relationship for over a year n half. Kinda sucks heart break is one of the hardest things to ever go through. Emotions are everywhere. Going from happy, sad, depressed, relieved, angry, lonely, bored. The worst part is the past year all my mates have been single and out having fun and now Im single they all thought it would be a good time to get g/f's. Bastards.
Last edited by CrimsonElder; 10-16-2011, 09:06 PM.
I'm currently single and happy. I haven't even been looking to be in a relationship for about six months now, I've been focusing on forwarding my own life instead.
Met a really nice girl tonight but had no feelings for her what so ever. Much rather be with my abusive ex. What the hell is wrong with me?
I found the problem, you're human.
I too met a nice girl, and by met I mean I ran into an old friend of mine who I haven't talked to in years. Unfortunately she is in a long distance relationship at the moment, but I don't think it's going to last long.
Taken by the sweetest angel arround, the one that got me out of darkness and fills me with joy just with a smile, (sorry I get like this every time I think about her) my wife, she who has been with me for 5 years now and who makes my everyday worth living.
Wow...Someone up stairs is really looking down on me. Heartbroken 3 weeks ago now met a girl last night and then this morning a girl who I was considering asking out pretty much asked me out! Date next friday. Nice! Guess everything does happen for a reason.
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