what kind of girls/guys are you attracted to?

[Enetirnel]

Some of us find it easier to just keep dragging that emotional backpack, it might help sometimes to help us deal with it instead of going "Ah crap, emotional baggage... why me?", unlike a lot of males that I've met are like.
Anyway.

I don't really have much of a type on preference of men, but here's pretty much the list:

- Dark hair.
- Curly hair.
- Psychotic behavior.
- Says "Yeeeew", "Bro", "Cuz", "Lawl","Bling", "Dude", "Gangsta" in main conversation form.
- Doesn't ask me if I'm twelve (I'm not, obviously), followed by "Little girl, would you like to come with me to get some candy/could you show me where [location] is?/want to see my car, I've got some cute toys there."

+ Intelligence.
+ Clean shaven.
+ Clean/short haircut.

Aside from those, I'm fine even with a funny guy who isn't the smartest one around - the thing with the curly/dark hair combo is that every guy that has been attracted to me has had that hair and has gotten either: 1# Stalker-ish behavior (including, not limited to paying people to follow me around and take photographs), #2 Trying to kill me with the false belief that I was "in love" with them (absolutely the opposite), and the murder attempts were caused by simply looking at another person.

... I'm rather easy to please, but I doubt I'll ever get a good guy as all I ever get are morons, crazies and pedos. But you get that, and because of that... I'm just going to keep on dreaming, ignoring the general thought of a relationship.

[Archelon]

Some of us find it easier to just keep dragging that emotional backpack, it might help sometimes to help us deal with it instead of going "Ah crap, emotional baggage... why me?", unlike a lot of males that I've met are like.

It's kind of hard to do that when they don't want your help.

But there also comes a point where for one's own health it's better to just end things than dragging it out when the other person doesn't want to do anything about their problems or isn't willing to accept your help. It's not as simple as you make it sound.

I'm sure you're familiar with the old saying, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink." Sometimes it doesn't matter what you do or how hard you try. The other person, despite how much they may swear otherwise, is perfectly content with living a miserable life and would rather simply complain about it than actually do anything to change it.

I'm a fixer, a doer. If someone tells me they have a problem, then my first instinct is to try to help them figure out what can be done to fix it or change their circumstances for the better. However, if they just want to vent, that's fine, too. But there's a difference between venting and complaining about a situation you have no interest or motivation to change or improve, even if it's within your own power. That's the issue. Just standing around complaining about it isn't going to change a thing, but if you're going to do is stand around and complain about it, then that tells me that you don't actually want it to change.

[Enetirnel]

((My apologies on this, but it's 3:20 a.m. here and I haven't slept for a few days - so I'm not exactly making much sense here)).

I see now Archelon, honestly the type of person that shrugs away help and would rather wallow in self-pity and constantly complain simply to be attention seeking... *Shudders* been there, done that type of thing. I do share your opinion on it, but my overall comment was mainly in relation to the many people who do have emotional baggage and do try to solve it, only to be responded with someone completely not interested in it (unlike those, who have had you - a kind problem-solver).

((Sorry, I'm not making sense here)).

[Archelon]

((My apologies on this, but it's 3:20 a.m. here and I haven't slept for a few days - so I'm not exactly making much sense here)).

I see now Archelon, honestly the type of person that shrugs away help and would rather wallow in self-pity and constantly complain simply to be attention seeking... *Shudders* been there, done that type of thing. I do share your opinion on it, but my overall comment was mainly in relation to the many people who do have emotional baggage and do try to solve it, only to be responded with someone completely not interested in it (unlike those, who have had you - a kind problem-solver).

((Sorry, I'm not making sense here)).

No worries. You're making perfect sense.

Much appreciated for the kind words.

[Enetirnel]

No worries. You're making perfect sense.

Much appreciated for the kind words.

I'm glad I am.
Not a problem, just speaking my mind.

Anyway, I think that I shall just continue and ignore any terms for relationship... life is a lot easier that way, instead of the possibility of hitting something and opening Pandora's Box in some cases.

[TheMedic]

He and I are going to get married someday... He just doesn't know it yet.

I know he's not like a hunk/stud or anything, but he's a talented guy and I find his talent and art very attractive.

[BadWolfX]

Ha, he looks a lot better nowadays.

[TheMedic]

Ha, he looks a lot better nowadays.

Yeah, thats him now.. He's still cute, I just kind of liked him best when he didn't have scruff like that

[nemesiswontdie]

that guy looks like a....nevermind.

[missvalentine]

He and I are going to get married someday... He just doesn't know it yet.

same thing with Keira and I!



That's my future wife right there.

[Archelon]

I think I'm going to slowly back away from this thread now.

[nemesiswontdie]

I think I'm going to slowly back away from this thread now.

im with ya

[Archelon]

But I guess if we're on the subject of impossible romances, I'd like to have one like James Bond and Vesper Lynd in Casino Royale.

...except, you know, minus the whole betraying me and getting herself killed at the end thing.

[REmaster]

I'm rather fond of girls who don't wear make-up. Make-up is fine when your going out to special events or what have you, but I'd much rather see you for what you're going to really look like in bed the next morning.

[Vector]

lol