Sexual discussion topic.

[missvalentine]

I honestly don't know who enjoys it more, but if had to pick Id say women too lol.

@ missvalentine: your are a virgin?respekt..how old are you?
Here in Germany the most girls are not virgins,too.the most of them are bitches i think.sorry if i say this,but its my opinion.

Yeah I am, and it's by choice too, not by lack of trying lol.

I agree that there are way to many sluts now, a virgin is a rare and special thing.

[Member_of_STARS]

Women. Unquestionably and inarguably.

Even the most gentleman of all gentlemen loses his sexdrive after some time. Most breakups Ive witnessed can be traced to man just not caring to give or even worse, not caring to give well and enough. Some of us call that "routine".

Its tragic and amusing to witness the change in roles.

And dont be calling sexually active girls "sluts" now. I personally dont value virginity at all, if its chosen to be kept for reasons such as "principle".

[missvalentine]

And dont be calling sexually active girls "sluts" now. I personally dont value virginity at all, if its chosen to be kept for reasons such as "principle".

Not all are, but some are.

I choose to stay a virgin until marriage because that's what I would want my partner to also do. It's just a personnel preference and nothing more. Besides I don't like the idea of casual sex, I would get to attached to easily, and then be heartbroken every time.

[Zombie Fred]

Not all are, but some are.

I choose to stay a virgin until marriage because that's what I would want my partner to also do. It's just a personnel preference and nothing more. Besides I don't like the idea of casual sex, I would get to attached to easily, and then be heartbroken every time.

Jesus Christ you should live a little on the extreme, even if you're going with a partner, you’re missing a window of time from missing the experience and pleasure you will have. Don’t let that energy go to waste.

[GuardhouseMusic]

While I'm still a virgin, I'm in the same area as missv, there was a time when I tried. Though it didn't work out with my girlfriend, there was plenty of foreplay and that was alright . Right now I'm not trying, gotta figure out a few things about myself.

[Member_of_STARS]

Not all are, but some are.

Some, as in few. The number of sluts out of all the girls is smaller than you think. A slut, but unbiased and neutral standards would be someone who would bed anyone at any time. A slut for me would be someone who is willing to bed anyone when shes too drunk to know the difference.

By that standard most men would be sluts, if they were fortunate to actually get some when they wanted to.

I choose to stay a virgin until marriage because that's what I would want my partner to also do.

As noble as it might seem, and as much as beatiful and honest you might look, and as much as you think your god would be pleased, its the worst thing you could do. Sex is the most important part in a marriage. There are a number of reasons why and were assuming that the two people love each other or share feelings close or similar to it. Youll find that problems in bed will reflect problems out of the bed and vice versa, which is why successful sexual relationship with your spouse is the number 1 (or number 2, depending on how open your personality is) key to a successful marriage.

I dont really think that you would want your marriage to end up in a state where two people are just "accustomed to each others presence and used to it".

Then again, you might get lucky, hit the jackpot and you get your sex life rolling from the first night. But honestly, thats an unlikely possibility.

It's just a personnel preference and nothing more. Besides I don't like the idea of casual sex, I would get to attached to easily, and then be heartbroken every time.

Dont wait for a sealed deal before you jump in. You actually need to experience that heartbreak. You also need to get to know a woman more. Your character is built on failures, not on success.

Ive never asked you how old you are, which is why this advice is universal. Might not look like a good thing right now, but it will be right in 30 years.

Note that Im not telling you to bed everyone and all the time, Im just saying that you should get out there, meet people, and if the opportunity presents itsself and you wont classify that person as a slut, a transsexual or an STD-wagon, you should go for it.

Despite all the "knowledge", my first time was a disaster, it was literally a catastrophe. After that it got significantly better. Now put that into perspective and imagine you blowing your first wedding night just because you were too nervious and too much of a wreck to get past 30 seconds, feeling the whole night that you did *everything* wrong. And on top of that, your wife went through an agony as her cherry was popped, bleeding all over the sheets.

Yeah, I can see a lot of potential for some after-sex cuddling and spooning right there.

[Harry Mason]

Sex is great...just make sure you take a shower after.

[BadWolfX]

How did I know that Taylor had made this thread. I saw the topic title and just thought "I bet Taylor made this." Looked down and saw "TheMedic" and just laughed.

[sweetlollygirl]

Thought there was something missing here. We need a sex topic! Its on all of our minds. So lets let it out here. This is just about sex in general. Discuss please! Don't be shy!

its funny how u made this after our discussion 2 days ago this is going good

[Gradon]

Of course the topics made about Relationship status, Sex discussion, how many times you masturbate in a week and horseback riding are by Taylor.
She's drived by those 4 very things.

[Alexia_Ashford]

I think men and women could both enjoy it equally if they both have one orgasm each. If both partners want to please eachother in bed and like to give then it can be a very fun experience for both, I think.

[missvalentine]

While I'm still a virgin, I'm in the same area as missv, there was a time when I tried. Though it didn't work out with my girlfriend, there was plenty of foreplay and that was alright . Right now I'm not trying, gotta figure out a few things about myself.

I have tried as well, it didn't work out to well though and I'm glad we didn't do it now really.

Some, as in few. The number of sluts out of all the girls is smaller than you think. A slut, but unbiased and neutral standards would be someone who would bed anyone at any time. A slut for me would be someone who is willing to bed anyone when shes too drunk to know the difference.

By that standard most men would be sluts, if they were fortunate to actually get some when they wanted to.

Lol. Well i didn't say every girl who has had sex is a slut. I just said it's becoming a little more common which I don't really like.

As noble as it might seem, and as much as beatiful and honest you might look, and as much as you think your god would be pleased, its the worst thing you could do. Sex is the most important part in a marriage. There are a number of reasons why and were assuming that the two people love each other or share feelings close or similar to it. Youll find that problems in bed will reflect problems out of the bed and vice versa, which is why successful sexual relationship with your spouse is the number 1 (or number 2, depending on how open your personality is) key to a successful marriage.

But relationships that are based solely on the sex also don't last long. You need to get along well with the person you are going out with as well. Otherwise what is the point of going out with a girl? I do like the idea of sex, I think it would be very fun doing it. But if I get married then I have the rest of my life to do it with the woman I love most.

I think Sex is a very important part of marriage too, but not the most important part.

Also just so you know, my choice to remain a virgin until I meet the right woman has nothing to do with religion or pleasing God at all. Absolutely nothing.

I dont really think that you would want your marriage to end up in a state where two people are just "accustomed to each others presence and used to it".

Then again, you might get lucky, hit the jackpot and you get your sex life rolling from the first night. But honestly, thats an unlikely possibility.

I wouldn't, but just cause I wait till marriage doesn't mean that is what's gonna happen. I would hate for that to happen. I'm pretty sure I would get lots of practice on my honey moon though.

Dont wait for a sealed deal before you jump in. You actually need to experience that heartbreak. You also need to get to know a woman more. Your character is built on failures, not on success.

This I agree with a lot. And I have experienced heart break that's why I said I would before, because I already have.

I do agree very much with you build and learn of your past failures though. And I do, I just don't have sex, I do other things just not sex.

I still ask girls out and go out with them and flirt and fool around.

Ive never asked you how old you are, which is why this advice is universal. Might not look like a good thing right now, but it will be right in 30 years.

Note that Im not telling you to bed everyone and all the time, Im just saying that you should get out there, meet people, and if the opportunity presents itsself and you wont classify that person as a slut, a transsexual or an STD-wagon, you should go for it.

I never said I didn't get out. I do, I just don't sleep with every woman I like.

Of course the topics made about Relationship status, Sex discussion, how many times you masturbate in a week and horseback riding are by Taylor.
She's drived by those 4 very things.

Haha, lol.

[Vector]

I'm confused as to what this topic is about, exactly. Sexual encounters? Or is it just like...

"LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX, BAY-BEE,
LET'S TALK ABOUT YOU, AND, ME,
LET'S TALK ABOUT ALL THE GOOD THINGS
AND THE BAD THINGS THAT MAY BE,
LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX, LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX.
LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX, LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX."

[Alexia_Ashford]

I honestly have no idea, though I'd make a guess from the previous posts that it's just about sex in general rather than previous encounters.

[REmaster]

I honestly have no idea, though I'd make a guess from the previous posts that it's just about sex in general rather than previous encounters.

Yea that would be my guess as well. I also have a gut feeling that this will be one of the more popular topics until it's eventually closed due to childish behavior lol. On another note, I have mixed feelings on saving your virginity. I think that it's nice to live a little and experience something that can truly be a beautiful thing, but only if the proper precautions are taken. I can't even tell you how many 14-16 yr. old girls I know that have been knocked up in the last 2 years. Sad.