Sexual discussion topic.

[Darkmoon]

It is boring for the guy. Girls generally don't try. It's why most of them want to get married, because of the unspoken no more blow job clause in the marriage certificate. Bitches can't wait to get there signature on that shit.

...yeah, you may be a little wrong on this one. Trust me on this. After over six years of sex with one partner it hasn't gotten old yet. We even did the marriage thing. So I think I can firmly disagree with that.

But really, you can only be balls deep in a bird so many times before you've seen it all before. Sex is sex, it's not this magical moment between two lovers. It's blowin' your heap cause you feel a bit swirly.

For you, maybe. For other people it means more and is, well, a hell of a lot more fun. That includes me. Just orgasming isn't that half of sex if you do it right. That may be the ending (or possibly an interlude, depending) but the journey getting there is a great deal of fun and can go on for a long time, including a great deal of fun and exciting stuff.

[kylehimself]

you just need the right woman.

In Belfast? Pfffffffffffffffffffttt *takes breath* Pffffffffffffffffffffffftt

[Alexia_Ashford]

Yeah, I agree with Darkmoon. Sex is more to most people than just blowing your load. If that's what you want from a partnership, fine, some people get casual sex partners. From experience though, when you're in a relationship it is so much better. There's more between you than just lust, it's lust, passion, and most important of all, love. I've had some of the best ever sex while being with Gareth, 'cause it's not just sex, it's making love. You know the person, you trust them. It doesn't always have to be with romantic music or flowers on the bed or whatever, either. When you trust a person, you can experiment and do whatever you want with them and explore your sexuality as a person, together.

[missvalentine]

it doesnt surprise me cause its pretty much normal now. People have sex now cause they are bord and thats their idea of fun

I would not do any random girl just because I was bored. I would go play a game or watch a movie. Hell read a book.

Anyways, sex really isn't all it's cracked up to be. At the start it's great and all that but after a while it just gets samey. Driving fast cars and motorcycles or falling of skateboards and bikes is more fun. Cars and stuff don't talk back either.

That's only if you have constant casual sex. After a while, just like with everything else, your gonna get bored of it especially if it's just meaningless sex. Which is the worst type.

Which is exactly why I wanna stay away from casual encounters.

But really, you can only be balls deep in a bird so many times before you've seen it all before. Sex is sex, it's not this magical moment between two lovers. It's blowin' your heap cause you feel a bit swirly.

If all you wanna do is blow your load. Why not just use your hands? Sex is a very meaningful thing, it's meant to be magical. If it isn't magical to you then your doing it all wrong.

[TheMedic]

Yeah, I agree with Darkmoon. Sex is more to most people than just blowing your load. If that's what you want from a partnership, fine, some people get casual sex partners. From experience though, when you're in a relationship it is so much better. There's more between you than just lust, it's lust, passion, and most important of all, love. I've had some of the best ever sex while being with Gareth, 'cause it's not just sex, it's making love. You know the person, you trust them. It doesn't always have to be with romantic music or flowers on the bed or whatever, either. When you trust a person, you can experiment and do whatever you want with them and explore your sexuality as a person, together.

Agreed, even though I'm a virgin I know from experience in relationships that I would feel much more comfortable being with someone I love and then having sex, rather than having multiple sex partners.

Do what you want and what makes you happy, I just think that being with someone you love would make sex so much better. Then again, I am a girl and most guys will want to blow their load through out their teenage life. Its human nature. Hormones are raging and they can't really help but have sex.

[Alexia_Ashford]

Agreed, even though I'm a virgin I know from experience in relationships that I would feel much more comfortable being with someone I love and then having sex, rather than having multiple sex partners.

Do what you want and what makes you happy, I just think that being with someone you love would make sex so much better. Then again, I am a girl and most guys will want to blow their load through out their teenage life. Its human nature. Hormones are raging and they can't really help but have sex.

Not necessarily. I'm only 18 myself and I've never had casual sex, it just doesn't work for me. Just wait till you find someone you really care about and feel comfortable with, and you'll know deep down if he feels the same way. Don't give it up till it feels right for you. There really is no rush to lose your virginity, you have your whole life for that. Virginity's nothing really special, the first time is the same as your 54th, but don't give yourself to a guy who doesn't deserve you is what I'm saying.

[TheMedic]

What do people think about condoms? Do guys really hate using them? Does it really feel that much better without one? Discuss.

[nemesiswontdie]

feels better without them but i prefer to use them

[TheMedic]

feels better without them but i prefer to use them

Yeah I think its a great idea to use them until you get to know the person better... Like maybe have an STD test or something. Then make sure the girl is on birth control, and have some fuuuun.

Or stay a virgin till you get married like I'm trying to do. I don't mind other people having sex before though. It's just personal choice

[Darkmoon]

Well, we use an alternative method of protection when not trying for a child. It's deffinintely a more pleasing experience without the things. I always found them slightly awkward and unpleasant feeling.

But unless you know the person very well it's the only sensible option. If someone insits they won't use them then they likely only give a crap about there pleasure and not you.

[Vector]

Raw-dogging feels A LOT better for both the guy and girl, but...it's really not worth it at this point in my life.

Safe sex is the best sex! /

[REmaster]

Well, we use an alternative method of protection when not trying for a child. It's deffinintely a more pleasing experience without the things. I always found them slightly awkward and unpleasant feeling.

But unless you know the person very well it's the only sensible option. If someone insits they won't use them then they likely only give a crap about there pleasure and not you.

Yea I also use alternate protection with the oppurtunity presents itself. Rubbers are a pain - uncomfortable, and can really piss you off when you want to get intimate as soon as possible lol. Than of course there's always the possiblity of it tearing *Congrats, it's a boy!* But just like a Lvl.1 wooden shield in an rpg, any protection is better than none.

[Vector]

I've never been with a girl long enough/at the right time to have her on the pill. Every time I've been with a girl and didn't use a condom, I used the incredibly intelligent 'pull and pray' method. It's thankfully worked for me so far, but...damn. It's so stupid. I haven't done that in a while, though.

Safe sex is the best sex! /

[REmaster]

*Pull and Pray* That's the most accurate description I've ever heard in my life.

Yea it seems like alot of girls aren't too fond of the pill because sometimes it can cause minor sickness and apparently it makes you gain a few pounds but I could never tell the difference.

[Darkmoon]

My son was conceived through a tearing condom. Which was lovely and something I never intend to mention. My wife and I were fine with it...we were already married and happy with the idea, bur financially we were not in a position to have a kid. Still, we managed.