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Originally posted by ChrisRedfield29 View PostOr maybe she really is a boring person? *rimshot*
@TheMedic: I'm guessing you didn't turn cold turkey over night. So where were these friends of yours when you were going through with your withdrawal ? I would imagine at least some of them knew about it and gave support through the process (obvious act of friendship). Otherwise I wouldn't even bother calling them friends, let alone waste my time on them. Loyalty and compassion are a few of the elements I would call essential to the definition of a 'friend'. In any case, congratulation on your accomplishment.
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Originally posted by Manji View PostNot funny, but I still laughed. Then again I'm an asshole. Anyhow, on the subject.
@TheMedic: I'm guessing you didn't turn cold turkey over night. So where were these friends of yours when you were going through with your withdrawal ? I would imagine at least some of them knew about it and gave support through the process (obvious act of friendship). Otherwise I wouldn't even bother calling them friends, let alone waste my time on them. Loyalty and compassion are a few of the elements I would call essential to the definition of a 'friend'. In any case, congratulation on your accomplishment.
First off thanks to everyone for the support! It made me feel better!
Manji, yes I did turn cold turkey over night actually. It's hard, but I'm getting through it. So I decided to tell everyone I stopped drinking/smoking weed and now they have stopped talking to me lol I still have a handful of friends that talk to me still (the ones that don't smoke pot and drink every night which were the majority of my friends) the ones that aren't the party animals think this is great though.
So I've come to the conclusion that these other so called "friends" were just here for the free ride. I used to pay for their booze/weed/vacations/and other things. I decided to stop doing that for them all the time and they started to stop speaking to me. I believe that these people were users and were only there to take and not give in the relationship. Sure, I'm very hurt because I've lost a lot of people whom I thought were my best friends, but on the other hand I'm glad I finally know which people are REALLY my friends and which ones are not.
I'm also starting to realize how much more alive I feel now that I'm clean. Parties are actually more fun when sober! As well as many many more things! I feel so clear minded now, even though I'm starting to detox which is kind of hard but I know I will feel much better in the end.
Oh and @ Chrisredfield29: You know I'm a fun person or else you would never IM me.Last edited by TheMedic; 05-12-2009, 10:15 PM.
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Originally posted by TheMedic View PostI've just recently become clean from all alcohol/weed and now all of my friends are starting to ignore me because of that. Just now I was on MSN with one of my friends and I told her "Hey I have great news I don't drink or do drugs anymore!" and she was all like "Great, now you're not gonna be any fun to hangout with... Im gunna go bye."
In other words it seems like now that I'm doing everything right everything is starting to go all wrong lol I guess I need to meet better friends who will actually be HAPPY for me and not pissy.
Congrats on staying clean and you'll probably find some people who will be there for you and not taking you down!
"I miss the days when we just cared how cool an enemy was rather than critiquing and analyzing everything to death." - Shield Key
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Originally posted by TheMedic View PostFirst off thanks to everyone for the support! It made me feel better!
Manji, yes I did turn cold turkey over night actually. It's hard, but I'm getting through it. So I decided to tell everyone I stopped drinking/smoking weed and now they have stopped talking to me lol I still have a handful of friends that talk to me still (the ones that don't smoke pot and drink every night which were the majority of my friends) the ones that aren't the party animals think this is great though.
Anyways, im annoyed at my school for forcing me to use a scribe in my Ancient History exam, because my handwritting is somewhat illegable when i write fast for long periods of time. I hate using scribes it sucks, plus she misspelt a lot of words too i noticed and had to correct her. And i had to repeat myself cause she was writing slower than i was talking. Damnit if you can't read my handwritting let me type!
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Originally posted by TheMedic View PostFirst off thanks to everyone for the support! It made me feel better!
Manji, yes I did turn cold turkey over night actually. It's hard, but I'm getting through it. So I decided to tell everyone I stopped drinking/smoking weed and now they have stopped talking to me lol I still have a handful of friends that talk to me still (the ones that don't smoke pot and drink every night which were the majority of my friends) the ones that aren't the party animals think this is great though.
So I've come to the conclusion that these other so called "friends" were just here for the free ride. I used to pay for their booze/weed/vacations/and other things. I decided to stop doing that for them all the time and they started to stop speaking to me. I believe that these people were users and were only there to take and not give in the relationship. Sure, I'm very hurt because I've lost a lot of people whom I thought were my best friends, but on the other hand I'm glad I finally know which people are REALLY my friends and which ones are not.
I'm also starting to realize how much more alive I feel now that I'm clean. Parties are actually more fun when sober! As well as many many more things! I feel so clear minded now, even though I'm starting to detox which is kind of hard but I know I will feel much better in the end.
Oh and @ Chrisredfield29: You know I'm a fun person or else you would never IM me.
Grrrr damn allergies! my eyes burn, I'm coughing like crazy and for some reason my upper body aches! and we have a game today! screw it, ima still go anyway
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Originally posted by ChrisRedfield29 View PostOr maybe she really is a boring person? *rimshot*
Well done Medic for going cold turkey, I hope you can stick to it.Last edited by Alexia_Ashford; 05-13-2009, 04:57 PM.
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Originally posted by Alexia_Ashford View PostTo the contrary, I've spoken to her a couple of times and she doesn't seem boring to me. I'd put it down to immature friends rather than her being a boring person. That's not a very nice comment to make either way.
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Originally posted by nemesiswontdie View Postcause it was during school and if i get in trouble 1 more time i cant walk the stage.
Hope your ribs get better man."One can only match, move by move, the machinations of fate... and thus defy the tyrannous stars."
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